We often think of breastfeeding as just a story between mom and baby. But what if breastfeeding was actually a couple’s adventure too? The role of the father or co-parent is crucial in this experience—far from being just a spectator! In fact, you have everything to gain by playing an active and supportive role, making breastfeeding a serene and fulfilling time for the whole family. Wondering how? We’ve got some tips for you!
8 Ways to Find Your Place in Breastfeeding
1. Get Informed!
Contrary to popular belief, breastfeeding isn’t an automatic reflex for all moms. It requires preparation—and you can be a part of that! By learning about the benefits of breastfeeding, the challenges that may arise, and the professionals available for support, you can be a real asset. Plus, future moms love seeing their partners do research and share helpful advice. Say goodbye to unsolicited advice from the in-laws and hello to teamwork!
2. Provide Essential Physical and Emotional Support
Breastfeeding can be quite the workout! Milk letdown, sore nipples, fatigue, self-doubt… Mom’s morale can take a hit. This is where you step in: a kind word, a listening ear, or even a joke to lighten the mood can make all the difference. Also, help ease her daily life—taking care of the house, preparing a quick yet nutritious meal, or ensuring she has water and everything she needs for a peaceful breastfeeding session. And most importantly, support her at night… Getting up for the baby, adjusting the feeding position—it changes everything!
3. Nurture Baby in Other Ways
Your baby needs you too—for daily care like baths, diaper changes, and gentle massages. These moments of bonding allow you to actively participate in their well-being. You can also rock them, practice skin-to-skin contact, or sing lullabies to soothe their little troubles. In short, you’re nourishing your baby with love and presence.
4. Try Skin-to-Skin Contact
You don’t have to be a mom to practice skin-to-skin contact! It’s an amazing way to create a strong bond with your baby and provide real comfort. Plus, it helps regulate their temperature and heart rate. The From Bump to Baby wrap is perfect for extending these magical bonding moments: unisex and one-size-fits-all, it adapts to everyone and is super practical!
5. Learn to Babywear
Babywearing is a must for strengthening the bond with your baby. You can soothe, comfort, and provide them with a safe cocoon. The best part? A babywearing sweatshirt that lets you keep them close, hands-free, and stylish! Perfect for both at-home moments and outings. And for even more convenience from birth, the Carry & Pack slips on as easily as a T-shirt, providing intuitive and comfortable babywearing in seconds.
6. Offer an Outside Perspective to Support Mom
Of course, mom will be the one breastfeeding, but learning, discussing with her, and understanding the importance of breastfeeding is invaluable. Without the postpartum hormonal rollercoaster, co-parents can offer a more objective perspective—something that can be very helpful when mom is overwhelmed by the desire to do everything right. Plus, with the 28-day paternity leave (seven mandatory), you have a real opportunity to get involved from the very beginning, offering crucial and calming support.
7. Be the “Scout” on Outings
Going out with a baby is an adventure! If mom prefers to breastfeed privately, you can be the scout—find a quiet spot, set up a comfortable space (pillow, blanket), and ensure her peace. A small gesture for you, a big comfort for her!
8. Breastfeed Differently
When baby can’t nurse at the breast, expressed breast milk in bottles is an option. And for those who want to get even more involved, there’s the Supplemental Nursing System (SNS), a small tube that allows baby to feed at the breast as if they were nursing from mom. A fantastic way to participate in breastfeeding while staying close to baby.
A Fulfilling Involvement for the Whole Family
Being involved in breastfeeding isn’t just about helping mom—it strengthens family bonds. The benefits? A deeper connection with your baby, a more relaxed and rested mom, and a fairer distribution of responsibilities. Breastfeeding isn’t just a mom’s story—it’s an adventure to share! So, are you ready to dive into this beautiful journey as a couple and as a family?